Queue PointsSeptember 14, 2026
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Fat Joe, the N-Word & Hip-Hop's Reckoning

Hosts DJ Sir Daniel and Jay Ray address Fat Joe's public defense of his N-word usage, examining how his Bronx hip-hop heritage intersects with accountability, racial identity, and audience boundaries. They analyze the potential impact of this rhetoric on his long-term legacy alongside the cultural friction surrounding non-Black artists using the slur. The conversation pivots to current debates within the DJ community, assessing discussions around technical skill, performance aesthetics, and generational dynamics sparked by viral DJ clips and responses from DJ Rob Swift. Together, they explore how mentorship, continuous learning, and intentionality sustain the integrity of Black music culture across generations.

The Breakdown

  • Fat Joe, Bronx Roots, and the N-Word Discourse: An examination of how Fat Joe leverages his upbringing in hip-hop’s birthplace to justify his usage of racial slurs, and why historical trauma complicates that argument.
  • Tainting Hip-Hop Legacies and Audience Disengagement: How doubling down on controversial language risks damaging an artist's long-term standing in hip-hop culture, and why listener boundary-setting matters.
  • Gatekeeping vs. Technical Skill in DJ Culture: A breakdown of viral online debates regarding DJing fundamentals, performance aesthetics, and ageism following commentary from Rob Swift and discussions around The Krate Doc with DJ Krate Digga and Dominic Lawson.
  • Preserving Community and Joy in DJ Performance: How modern social media dynamics impact mentorship, continuous learning, and the emotional connection between DJs and their audiences.

Chapter Markers

00:00 Intro Theme

00:17 Welcome Back

00:52 Quick Transition

00:53 Fat Joe and the N-Word Debate

02:17 Fat Joe's Bronx Roots Argument

15:35 No Resolution: Choosing Not to Engage

18:12 Transition

18:19 Gatekeeping in DJing

21:04 The Canyon DJ Set Controversy

32:54 Quick Transition

32:55 Listening to Learn: Community & Joy in DJing

40:21 Quick Transition

40:22 Wrap-Up & Shoutouts

42:12 Outro Theme

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Sir Daniel:

Oh, hey.

Sir Daniel:

Welcome back to another episode of Queue Points podcast.

Sir Daniel:

I am DJ Sir Daniel

Jay Ray:

And my name is Jay Ray, sometimes known by my governments

Jay Ray:

as Johnnie Ray Kornegay III.

Jay Ray:

Hey, y'all, it has been a while.

Jay Ray:

Y'all are hopping up into the thing

Sir Daniel:

I'm telling you, it's been a minute.

Sir Daniel:

Maybe absence does g- make the heart grow fonder.

Sir Daniel:

So Jay Ray, um, where should we start?

Jay Ray:

I think, I think we start with the first thing you had on the list.

Jay Ray:

I think that's a, a great topic.

Jay Ray:

So Fat Joe is back in the news again.

Jay Ray:

part of p- part of this is insanity, but also part of this is becau- right?

Jay Ray:

Part of this is because, you know, he's gotta keep the, the download

Jay Ray:

numbers up on the Joe and Jada podcast.

Sir Daniel:

Right

Jay Ray:

um, I think he's picked this hill to continue to, to, to beat.

Jay Ray:

And so I, I'm curious, so w- w- what we're talking about is the

Jay Ray:

fact that Fat Joe went on the Joe Budden, uh, podcast and was talking

Jay Ray:

about his use of the N-word again.

Jay Ray:

has already come up.

Jay Ray:

his thoughts on why he should use it, how Black, quote-unquote, he is.

Jay Ray:

Fat Joe is Puerto Rican, which is definitely in the diaspora.

Jay Ray:

We're not saying that.

Jay Ray:

That's not what we're saying.

Jay Ray:

But we are specifically talking about the use of this word and,

Jay Ray:

um, talking about how, you know, the people in his neighborhood,

Jay Ray:

you know, they call him what?

Jay Ray:

Little N-word Joe, and all of this stuff.

Jay Ray:

All of that.

Jay Ray:

But that's what we talking about.

Jay Ray:

Sir Daniel, what do you think about this?

Jay Ray:

I have some thoughts, but what are your thoughts?

Sir Daniel:

Okay.

Sir Daniel:

So

Sir Daniel:

The crux of Joe's argument to his connection and own- downright ownership

Sir Daniel:

to this word is that he is born and raised in these projects in the heart of

Sir Daniel:

the Bronx, which is the heart of hip-hop

Sir Daniel:

And I don't disagree with him on that fact Know about what I find, what I, what's

Sir Daniel:

interesting is that nobody, absolutely nobody is arguing your authenticity,

Sir Daniel:

your authentic roots and connection to hip hop culture and rap music.

Sir Daniel:

That is absolutely not on the par- on the docket for arguing.

Sir Daniel:

That's not up for trial.

Sir Daniel:

We know you've been there, we know you've been there for since, since the beginning.

Sir Daniel:

Um, Miss Melody babysat you, all of the things, you know.

Sir Daniel:

And I'm, I made that one being facetious, but, you know, I, I'm, I'm just saying

Jay Ray:

believed it though.

Sir Daniel:

I'm just saying that you are entrenched in hip hop culture and nobody's

Sir Daniel:

trying to take that away from you.

Sir Daniel:

We are talking about a word that is steeped in so much,

Sir Daniel:

um, bloody history, right?

Sir Daniel:

So much, um, DNA, so much, uh, so many spirits are attached to that word that

Sir Daniel:

I find it odd, I find it very odd and interesting that as somebody who, w- who

Sir Daniel:

has so much stake in this culture, and I'm assuming because you have a stake

Sir Daniel:

in the culture, that you have a love for the people who are intrinsically

Sir Daniel:

woven into the culture, um, who have come together with people of, of Latinx

Sir Daniel:

background to create that culture, right?

Sir Daniel:

I know, and again, nobody's arguing your authentic roots involved.

Sir Daniel:

But what I, what I just can't for the life of me, and this is a Sir Daniel

Sir Daniel:

statement, an I statement, is I just don't understand that if the people who have

Sir Daniel:

paid blood for this word, who do not want someone who phenotypically looks white.

Sir Daniel:

I understand that you, you know, li- allegedly your daddy is Afro-Cuban.

Sir Daniel:

You know, that is, that gene, that gene is so recessive.

Sir Daniel:

That gene, that gene is probably somewhere like, "Nene Leakes talking

Sir Daniel:

about, 'Now why am I in it?'"

Jay Ray:

Right

Sir Daniel:

That, that Af- that Black, um, recessive gene that's in your,

Sir Daniel:

in your family is like, "Why are you still talking about me? We don't,

Sir Daniel:

we don't come around these parts."

Sir Daniel:

Haven't been seen in your lineage for years 'cause ain't nobody in

Sir Daniel:

the family looks, has any of the phenotypical, um, uh, uh, attributes

Sir Daniel:

of somebody who is quote-unquote black and has Black features.

Sir Daniel:

And so I just for the life of me don't understand his commitment, his

Sir Daniel:

willingness to die on this hill to continue to use a word that people

Sir Daniel:

find harmful And are telling you that word is harmful, historically harmful.

Sir Daniel:

I don't like hearing it.

Sir Daniel:

Please stop using it.

Sir Daniel:

Please stop using it directed to me.

Sir Daniel:

Because I'm sorry, when he says it and he's, a- and I mean, he's roasting people

Sir Daniel:

and, and saying all kinds of N words this and N words that, like when, when

Sir Daniel:

he's addressing other Black people, it's, it, it's, it feels like a hate crime.

Sir Daniel:

It really does.

Sir Daniel:

It feels like a hate crime, and I, I don't understand the, just the

Sir Daniel:

commitment to wanting to use that word.

Sir Daniel:

Why do you wanna use it so bad?

Sir Daniel:

Why do, why do these young white kids want to use it so bad?

Sir Daniel:

I just don't understand the obsession with this word.

Sir Daniel:

And as somebody who is phenotypically Black, yes, I am, I am, um, born of people

Sir Daniel:

who are from, um, who are from other parts of the diaspora, and, you know, there's

Sir Daniel:

a whole argument about Black Americans and people who were born here and/or not

Sir Daniel:

born here about their, um, usage of the word and their attachment to the word.

Sir Daniel:

I don't care about that.

Sir Daniel:

We… I'm still, I'm talking to other Black people about other Black people.

Sir Daniel:

I just don't get it.

Sir Daniel:

I really don't.

Sir Daniel:

And I just… Like somebody, who was it?

Sir Daniel:

I think it was on the Don't Call Me White Girl show.

Sir Daniel:

She said, or maybe I forget whose podcast it was, but they were saying,

Sir Daniel:

"I can guarantee you Fat Joe does not call any of his family members n***a."

Jay Ray:

Oh, abso-

Sir Daniel:

he doesn't, he doesn't say, he doesn't call, he don't call his

Sir Daniel:

abuela, that's what they said there.

Sir Daniel:

He don't call his abuela my n***a.

Sir Daniel:

He don't say none of that.

Sir Daniel:

He don't use it, he does not use it to a- with anyone else or addresses

Sir Daniel:

anyone else other than Black people, and then he, and, and, and he's so

Sir Daniel:

comfortable in using it because he's, quote-unquote, "been given a pass."

Sir Daniel:

Now, I kinda blame, um, New York culture and N- and how, uh, insulated New Yorkers

Sir Daniel:

can be when it comes to that, and how they've become so comfortable with it.

Sir Daniel:

Fine.

Sir Daniel:

I get it.

Sir Daniel:

I get it.

Sir Daniel:

If I had continued to live in New York, uh, into, into my formidable

Sir Daniel:

years, into my adult years, who knows?

Sir Daniel:

I may have had developed a very different type of attitude However, outside

Sir Daniel:

of New York, that's not gonna fly.

Sir Daniel:

And I, and I, and I, and I know he… I just wonder how many

Sir Daniel:

times that he's been in rooms.

Sir Daniel:

Like, I bet you he wouldn't go, he wouldn't go to the NAACP awards and,

Sir Daniel:

and go on stage and say, "What's up, my n***as?" I guarantee you

Sir Daniel:

wouldn't he, he wouldn't do that.

Sir Daniel:

He may not even be invited.

Jay Ray:

No, who, who, who, no.

Sir Daniel:

But he would go… But to the argument, he would go to the

Sir Daniel:

BET Awards and use it because BET,

Sir Daniel:

BET has allowed it or would allow it, but because B- BET ain't really Black no more.

Sir Daniel:

But anyway, so that, that's where I am with it.

Sir Daniel:

I'm just, I am perplexed.

Sir Daniel:

I'm just su- super perplexed about why, if you care about Black people

Sir Daniel:

and Black culture so much, if Black people are asking you or telling you

Sir Daniel:

that this word is harmful, why do you insist on holding onto it and using it?

Jay Ray:

So, and I'm so glad you said that because I think his doubling down and

Jay Ray:

tripling down and quadrupling down on this

Jay Ray:

more about him as a person, and I think that's bigger

Jay Ray:

than even him using the word.

Jay Ray:

I think where I've come with this to the fact that there is… Fat Joe

Jay Ray:

got bigger issues, and we should have bigger issues with him, his continued

Jay Ray:

use of this word after we've been having these conversations about it

Sir Daniel:

Mm-hmm

Jay Ray:

is our rallying cry should be like, "Nah, this ain't

Jay Ray:

it." So now side-eyeing people in Joe's camp who should be having

Jay Ray:

this conversation with him.

Jay Ray:

I ain't gonna call no names, but He's got people in his camp that should be

Jay Ray:

really having this conversation with him.

Jay Ray:

Because here's the problem, and I don't know that he, he knows this,

Jay Ray:

but now that he keeps doing this, it's going to blow back negatively.

Jay Ray:

It hasn't gotten there yet, but what he's re- what he doesn't realize

Jay Ray:

is he's gonna taint his legacy by continuing to double down in this way.

Jay Ray:

Right now, in this moment that we're in, in, in, in this very

Jay Ray:

moment that we're in, he's okay.

Jay Ray:

I guarantee that thing gonna circle back around and not

Jay Ray:

age the way he thinks it is.

Jay Ray:

So that's, that's absolutely been on my mind.

Jay Ray:

This says a lot about Fat Joe, and I think what it says about him is bigger

Jay Ray:

than his actual use of the word.

Jay Ray:

To your point, his w- his continued doing it is, like, just stop.

Jay Ray:

Just stop.

Jay Ray:

It's very simple.

Jay Ray:

You know what I mean?

Jay Ray:

else is going on there.

Jay Ray:

Um, to your other point, Sir Daniel, I absolutely agree.

Jay Ray:

Um, we made this, uh, we made this monster.

Jay Ray:

Like, folks in Joe's neighborhood and that he's been around making records

Jay Ray:

around for 30 years that have allowed him to do this made this monster.

Jay Ray:

Like, this is,

Sir Daniel:

Mhm.

Jay Ray:

relationship, right?

Jay Ray:

And you know, we talked about, um, we did our N-word show.

Jay Ray:

If y'all

Sir Daniel:

Yep

Jay Ray:

and listened to our N-word podcast, it's so dope, where we really

Jay Ray:

talk about, um, the rise of the use of the N-word in hip-hop, going from a word

Jay Ray:

that, of course, we grew up, Sir Daniel, initially where this word was like,

Jay Ray:

no, it is not a word that you say even though o- Black folks in comedic ways

Jay Ray:

would use the word, but there was a line.

Jay Ray:

Kids definitely couldn't use it, and it was just, like, cringe every time

Jay Ray:

somebody did it, unless it was Richard Pryor and he was telling a joke, right?

Sir Daniel:

Mhm

Jay Ray:

of course, we talk about the rise of the use of the word

Jay Ray:

in, in, in, in hip-hop culture, and then to greater, uh, uh, fame as

Jay Ray:

part of just rap records in general.

Jay Ray:

So go check out that show.

Jay Ray:

It's dope.

Jay Ray:

But I think we have all of these things that have combined that have given Joe,

Jay Ray:

uh, this mindset, but once again, this mindset is a signal for a bigger problem.

Jay Ray:

I don't know what it is, but it's something.

Jay Ray:

Um, I think it's reductive to keep talking to him about this, honestly.

Jay Ray:

He doesn't have the range

Sir Daniel:

No.

Sir Daniel:

He doesn't have the empathy.

Sir Daniel:

He doesn't have the empathy

Jay Ray:

the empathy, he doesn't have the interest, the, like, general

Jay Ray:

interest in dealing with the nuances of the word, its history, how we

Jay Ray:

feel about it as Black people.

Jay Ray:

He doesn't care.

Sir Daniel:

He does not

Jay Ray:

range for it.

Jay Ray:

We should stop talking to him about it.

Jay Ray:

And I think what we have to… Well, okay, first of all, Black

Jay Ray:

people, we have only been able to agree on who can't use the word.

Jay Ray:

And then really that's kinda one group of people, and then the younger people

Jay Ray:

are now letting them use the word.

Jay Ray:

Before it was like white people can never say it.

Jay Ray:

Now, all of a sudden, we hearing young white people say it all the time, right?

Jay Ray:

Before, that was, like, never supposed to happen.

Jay Ray:

The who can use the word has always been a bigger thing because I think that's

Jay Ray:

when we go back to, to, to, to, uh, uh, r- racism, slavery, and the way we have been

Jay Ray:

taught that we don't have value as people.

Jay Ray:

we can't draw the line.

Jay Ray:

Like, there's no way to draw the line on this because I just… W- they're

Jay Ray:

gonna be, half of us are gonna say yes, and half of us are gonna say no.

Jay Ray:

So Joe is like, "Then I can." Then, uh, he's gonna just hang

Jay Ray:

out with the yes, I can group.

Jay Ray:

what I want is, and I said this in that show, what I want is the yes, I can group

Jay Ray:

to really evaluate why this is okay.

Jay Ray:

So that's where I'm at with it.

Jay Ray:

I think it's stupid to keep talking to Joe about this, honestly.

Jay Ray:

But I get that they have to have conversations on podcasts.

Jay Ray:

I get that Marc Lamont Hill has to have a take on this.

Jay Ray:

get it.

Jay Ray:

I get that people have to have a take.

Jay Ray:

I just think it's a circ- it's a circular conversation

Jay Ray:

that ain't gonna land nowhere.

Sir Daniel:

And you know what?

Sir Daniel:

That's, that's the real deal.

Sir Daniel:

Like, there's just certain things that n- we just have to resolve

Sir Daniel:

within ourselves that there is no, not gonna be a resolution.

Sir Daniel:

There is no, not going to be a resolution.

Sir Daniel:

But again, like I always say, you can always pick up the

Sir Daniel:

needle or let the record play.

Sir Daniel:

It's like you have the opportunity to decide whether or not you're going

Sir Daniel:

to engage, whether or not you're going to support this person, whether

Sir Daniel:

or not you're going to listen to their podcast, watch their videos.

Sir Daniel:

Because as I said, I can't, I can't watch it only for the simple

Sir Daniel:

fact, like from coming from him, it sound, it sounds very violent.

Sir Daniel:

It sounds violent and I just can't… I, I don't like him.

Sir Daniel:

I maybe I've just been t- too far removed from New York

Sir Daniel:

culture to, to appreciate it.

Sir Daniel:

I just don't.

Sir Daniel:

I do not.

Sir Daniel:

So I'm not going to, like you said, I'm not going to campaign.

Sir Daniel:

We not-- Queue Points is not going out to campaign to shut down, um, anybody's

Sir Daniel:

podcast or their recording career.

Sir Daniel:

They're 35 years deep into the game.

Sir Daniel:

There's no taking away their credit or their street, their

Sir Daniel:

street cred in the game.

Sir Daniel:

That's not gonna happen.

Sir Daniel:

But what I can do and what you all can do as well is to turn it off and not engage.

Sir Daniel:

Do not, just do not engage in that person and their unwillingness.

Sir Daniel:

Because I guarantee you, if they, if they ever got Oprah in there on that

Sir Daniel:

show, Joe ain't calling Oprah the N-word

Jay Ray:

Absolutely not

Sir Daniel:

It would be, "Oh my God, we got the queen Oprah in the building.

Sir Daniel:

Oprah Winfrey, you are a goddess.

Sir Daniel:

I cannot believe it.

Sir Daniel:

You're sitting right here in front of me.

Sir Daniel:

Oh my God, my wife, my kids love you, Oprah Winfrey." It would be

Sir Daniel:

all of that, but it would never be, "What's up, my n***a O- what's up,

Sir Daniel:

my n***a Oprah in the building?"

Sir Daniel:

Never.

Sir Daniel:

Absolutely would never

Jay Ray:

and here's the thing about that.

Jay Ray:

What I would hope Oprah did was call him on his bulls**t.

Sir Daniel:

Check 'em

Jay Ray:

Like, I think reality is we are in a moment in time,

Jay Ray:

and it's unpopular, right?

Jay Ray:

It's, it's

Sir Daniel:

Mhm.

Jay Ray:

to do this, especially I'ma use a I statement

Jay Ray:

I, you got, I have to stand for something

Sir Daniel:

Cicely Tyson said in that, um, that Tyler Perry movie, "You

Sir Daniel:

all aren't gonna be shaking around and using that kind of words on this

Sir Daniel:

land. Not here on Queue Points land."

Jay Ray:

Don't come over here, don't come over here with that foolishness.

Jay Ray:

Don't do it.

Sir Daniel:

moving on to another topic that again… Boy, I'm telling you, J,

Sir Daniel:

like we have gone… Are we, are we viral?

Sir Daniel:

Would you say we're viral with these, these couple clips that have come out?

Jay Ray:

it's been a whole lot of viral moments.

Jay Ray:

Surprisingly, like these are, we've… You know, it's not surprising.

Jay Ray:

I guess we, we, the algorithm likes what we, we giving, so I

Jay Ray:

guess it's not super surprising.

Jay Ray:

But yeah, we've had all of these moments that have g-

Jay Ray:

gotten really good engagement.

Sir Daniel:

recently, and you all please go back and watch this.

Sir Daniel:

As a matter of fact, the episode just dropped this week.

Sir Daniel:

Um, both Jay Ray and I had the pleasure of sitting down with the team of the, the

Sir Daniel:

recently relu- released, reluced, released

Jay Ray:

Mhm

Sir Daniel:

documentary, "The Krate Doc," from the Ummah Collective group that, um,

Sir Daniel:

made an amazing documentary about the, uh, uh, a three-day s- was it three-day?

Sir Daniel:

Yeah, a three-day stretch, five, five gigs for DJ Krate Digga, and we sat down

Sir Daniel:

with both the filmmaker Dominic Lawson as well as DJ Krate Digga to talk about their

Sir Daniel:

experiences with creating this documentary and then digging deeper in s- as far as,

Sir Daniel:

um, what it means to be a DJ today and talking about Krate Digga's experience,

Sir Daniel:

um, as a DJ for almost 30 years.

Sir Daniel:

And so I just brought up the fact, like, "Hey, you know, there's a lot of d-

Sir Daniel:

these DJ tropes that are all over social media." I named a few of them, and finally

Sir Daniel:

I was just like, "Is, is the cure or is the solution to a lot of this stuff is

Sir Daniel:

that we should start gatekeeping DJing?

Sir Daniel:

Or should there be some gatekeeping when it comes to the art of DJing?"

Sir Daniel:

Well, this gentleman over here, Mr. Q- um, Jay Ray, uh, over here with his,

Sir Daniel:

um, mad scientist self clipped that up and posted it, and y'all went berserk.

Sir Daniel:

I mean, everybody had a, had some type of, um… which is fine, had a response or

Sir Daniel:

some type… uh, or an opinion regarding, um, gatekeeping as it comes to DJing.

Sir Daniel:

And what I noticed, Jay Ray, is that a lot of, a lot of people took offense because,

Sir Daniel:

and the way that they showed their offense was to call out, was to be ageist and

Sir Daniel:

say that, "Oh, you know, y'all are just old and, um, don't like that things

Sir Daniel:

are changing and things are evolving.

Sir Daniel:

Y'all are just old, and that's why you wanna gatekeep DJing." And

Sir Daniel:

no, I don't f- I- that's not true.

Sir Daniel:

As a matter of fact, Krate Digga implicitly was like, "No, we should not

Sir Daniel:

gatekeep DJing." But I mean, this c- and it's not, that's not, we're not the only

Sir Daniel:

ones that were having that conversation.

Sir Daniel:

Jay Ray, I saw a conversation being held by a young lady

Sir Daniel:

who is also, um, she's a DJ.

Sir Daniel:

Um, she is known for having, doing her DJ sets in outdoors

Jay Ray:

Yes,

Sir Daniel:

In different settings like canyons and mountains and by the beach

Sir Daniel:

and all that kind of stuff where she…

Jay Ray:

out there

Sir Daniel:

There's no electricity.

Sir Daniel:

And in her defense, if your laptop is fully powered, if you're using

Sir Daniel:

a laptop, I, I can't, I don't even know if she was using a laptop.

Sir Daniel:

But if your laptop is fully powered, you can plug in your laptop

Sir Daniel:

and your controller will work.

Sir Daniel:

Your pro- controller will work.

Sir Daniel:

So the… I think, but the, the conversation or the question

Sir Daniel:

became, well, are you really DJing?

Sir Daniel:

Because one, there's a whole aspect of you don't have monitors, or

Sir Daniel:

at least we didn't see monitors.

Sir Daniel:

Um, she was wearing her headphones throughout the whole set, and all the

Sir Daniel:

transitions just, it w- it, it were perfect and it just looked like a lot of

Sir Daniel:

knob turning bec- and because the bottom line is that a lot of people who, who have

Sir Daniel:

practiced for years who, as the kids say, put, got it out the mud and learned, um,

Sir Daniel:

the fundam- the, the fundamentals of DJing sometimes on analog equipment and, but

Sir Daniel:

also have an idea of how to use digital equipment, are noticing things that

Sir Daniel:

you're doing or not doing that's just, it's just raising a lot of questions.

Sir Daniel:

So Rob Swift, who is a, a well-known DJ who is, um, who's been in the

Sir Daniel:

game for 30-plus years, um, has, is a teacher, teaches people how

Sir Daniel:

to DJ, and he just asked her a question in, in one of her posts.

Sir Daniel:

And baby, when I tell you just the fact that he asked her a question and he also

Sir Daniel:

gave context to his question, um, and I know sometimes that people like Rob can

Sir Daniel:

be, can be blunt, but I, I, in my opinion, it didn't feel like he was being rude.

Sir Daniel:

He was truly just asking a question.

Sir Daniel:

And baby, when I tell you, I guess her fans, um, other young ladies who

Sir Daniel:

are also DJs, I mean, they hopped in the comments and they started

Sir Daniel:

swarming and attacking and it, it became an, a, um, an ageist attack.

Sir Daniel:

Um, it became, um, you're being misogynist and it became, "Oh, look at the…

Sir Daniel:

Here, surprise, surprise.

Sir Daniel:

Here comes the man, mansplaining on how to DJ like us ladies don't know how to DJ."

Sir Daniel:

And I just don't think it warranted that.

Sir Daniel:

It really was a legit question because I love, I love my lady DJs.

Sir Daniel:

You know, love them down, support them.

Sir Daniel:

We know this

Jay Ray:

you al- and you also know for real, for real lady, like women who DJ.

Jay Ray:

Like, this is not… Like, these are

Sir Daniel:

Legendary for real DJs, right.

Sir Daniel:

And so when I see a lot of people who are saying, "Hmm, I don't know, I can get

Sir Daniel:

one of these cutesy little controllers," and we know that aesthetics are huge

Sir Daniel:

parts of, of, um, this generation's culture of expressing themselves, and

Sir Daniel:

it's not necessarily about substance, but it is a, a lot about aesthetics

Sir Daniel:

and, and making you feel a certain way and having things look a certain way.

Sir Daniel:

We're just asking questions like, "Are you… You know, what's up with that?

Sir Daniel:

Or why, why are you turning this knob and that really doesn't do anything? Are

Sir Daniel:

you doing that just to give the illusion that you are actually doing something?"

Sir Daniel:

it got really ugly quickly, and I was just, I just didn't

Sir Daniel:

understand how people, people got so offended so quickly regarding that

Jay Ray:

Yeah, it's funny that you mention that because, um, I had to

Jay Ray:

take a step back 'cause I, the comment that you're talki- that, that you

Jay Ray:

mentioned earlier on, um, was like

Jay Ray:

ageist in a way that I didn't think was necessary, you know what I'm saying?

Jay Ray:

And so I actually replied to that commenter, right?

Jay Ray:

Both Kray and I did, actually, one of the things that was really important

Jay Ray:

to me that reply was to acknowledge that Kray, that, "Yo, you need to go

Jay Ray:

listen to the whole section because he's saying what you're saying."

Jay Ray:

So you can only do so much.

Jay Ray:

I had - I, I did clip that in a minute, right?

Jay Ray:

That I truncated that whole thing into, like, one part, right?

Jay Ray:

So that was that.

Jay Ray:

I wanted that person to know that.

Jay Ray:

And then number two is I didn't want to throw them away either and just

Jay Ray:

be like, know, and just do that whole thing, 'cause it, it, it could have

Jay Ray:

g- like, I could have gone there.

Jay Ray:

But I, I - so I wanted to model the kind of behavior on our platform that

Jay Ray:

we respect and expect in that statement.

Jay Ray:

And so to that point of, like, people coming for … I think the

Jay Ray:

internet, uh, in particular social media, has bred this clap back

Sir Daniel:

Mhm, mhm

Jay Ray:

that all the time isn't necessary.

Jay Ray:

You know what I mean?

Jay Ray:

The reality is this, homegirl, I ain't never seen homegirl who go to the canyons.

Jay Ray:

But here's what I do know.

Jay Ray:

What I do know is she is recording a YouTube video or

Jay Ray:

whatever platform she's on.

Sir Daniel:

Mm-hmm.

Jay Ray:

order for her to get the, the stuff, the views that she wanna

Jay Ray:

get, that set has to be perfect.

Jay Ray:

And guess what I know?

Jay Ray:

She ain't recording that set for real in that canyon.

Jay Ray:

That set was recorded at her house.

Jay Ray:

She had a very clear … 'Cause okay, so if you talking about how, you know,

Jay Ray:

if you're doing all of this, like, you have to know exactly what to play,

Jay Ray:

when to play, all of those pieces.

Jay Ray:

She got - she was in there basically lip syncing the

Jay Ray:

Potentially, allegedly.

Jay Ray:

Potentially.

Jay Ray:

This is Jay Ray talking.

Jay Ray:

She might have been recording the thing in the canyon.

Jay Ray:

Maybe she good at that, you know what I mean?

Jay Ray:

But guess is what she did is she did that mix at home in a way that she can

Jay Ray:

perfect that mix, because that's what makes sense to do, you know what I mean?

Jay Ray:

Like, that's what

Sir Daniel:

Right

Jay Ray:

then you create the video from that thing.

Jay Ray:

That just is good recording sense.

Jay Ray:

That's no shade.

Jay Ray:

I'm not saying that she didn't do it.

Jay Ray:

What I'm saying is- My guess is it didn't happen the way it

Jay Ray:

was filmed that it happened.

Jay Ray:

W-

Sir Daniel:

And if you did, own up to it

Jay Ray:

If you did own up to … Or at least come on and be like, respond, some

Jay Ray:

context, especially because it's DJ to DJ.

Jay Ray:

You know, one of the things that's really dope if a DJ is coming onto

Jay Ray:

your thing, there is a way that you can build a relationship with

Sir Daniel:

absolutely

Jay Ray:

with somebody else that's in your, uh, industry.

Jay Ray:

And maybe they did in the DMs.

Jay Ray:

Maybe there's a whole conversation about this that happened in the DMs

Jay Ray:

that didn't happen on the thing.

Jay Ray:

Point is, though, I think we have to model good behavior, and I absolutely

Jay Ray:

think there are folks out here that do be straight up mansplaining.

Jay Ray:

Like, "What are you doing coming on here?" And it doesn't sound like he was, uh,

Jay Ray:

uh, questioning her, her DJing ability, but literally like, "Hey, what's this?

Jay Ray:

What's

Jay Ray:

Like, how is this happening?

Sir Daniel:

Yeah

Jay Ray:

this?

Jay Ray:

I wanna go to the Canyon.

Jay Ray:

How you doing this in the Canyon?" Like, how are you doing that?

Sir Daniel:

Right

Jay Ray:

dope, right?

Jay Ray:

Um, and I think it's okay for us to have this dialogue.

Jay Ray:

I just think we need to give people, um, room to have some discussion, and

Jay Ray:

sometimes on social, m- most times on social media, we don't get the room.

Jay Ray:

But Krate Digga a nuanced response to this, y'all, and

Jay Ray:

I, I wanna big him up for it

Sir Daniel:

Mm-hmm

Jay Ray:

it did really change my mind about how I DJs.

Jay Ray:

Now, I ain't gonna dance to all of y'all 'cause I can't.

Jay Ray:

Some of y'all don't do what I need to be done,

Sir Daniel:

Exactly

Jay Ray:

make you bad at what you're doing.

Jay Ray:

It don't work for me, but it might work for someone else, and that's cool.

Jay Ray:

Now, there are some technical things that I'd be like, "No, no, no, no, what you

Jay Ray:

just did there, that was like a bad blend.

Sir Daniel:

Ja

Jay Ray:

to blend.

Jay Ray:

It didn't work." Right?

Jay Ray:

You know what I'm saying?

Jay Ray:

Like, there are technical things.

Jay Ray:

But what Krate did, what he, his response was, and then I'll wrap this up, his

Jay Ray:

response was basically like, "We have to that we are using the same words to

Jay Ray:

describe ultimately different things.

Jay Ray:

There are different kinds of DJs." And when he said that, I'm like,

Jay Ray:

yeah, wedding DJs have to be set up to do a whole different thing.

Jay Ray:

You have to be … You have to know your top 40 and know of this and

Jay Ray:

know of that, be able to put, uh, uh,

Jay Ray:

requests

Sir Daniel:

s- have scripts ready, everything

Sir Daniel:

Yep

Jay Ray:

and do this on a dime, and da, da, da.

Jay Ray:

It's a different kind of DJ.

Jay Ray:

DJs who are like, "I'm doing house parties because these are my rent

Jay Ray:

parties. This is how I do this. do that this way." hop DJs, I do it this way.

Jay Ray:

House DJs do a completely different thing.

Jay Ray:

You know what I'm saying?

Jay Ray:

So when we put that in context, it's like, oh, it gives more room

Jay Ray:

for people to DJ in a lot of ways.

Jay Ray:

Sir Daniel, I thought of you, and then I'm gonna end.

Jay Ray:

I thought of you.

Jay Ray:

You went to an event, I won't name the event because it'll hit, it'll hit

Jay Ray:

people to, to possibly when it happened.

Jay Ray:

But I think you called it, like, ADHD.

Jay Ray:

It was like the set was kinda like ADHD.

Jay Ray:

Like, it was like, oh, he went here, and then he went there, and I didn't

Jay Ray:

know how he got there to there, but that was interesting to me.

Sir Daniel:

Mhm.

Jay Ray:

like, "Huh. Huh."

Sir Daniel:

Oh yeah, I for- I forgot I said that.

Sir Daniel:

I crack myself up.

Sir Daniel:

No, serious.

Sir Daniel:

But you're right.

Sir Daniel:

You're… And I was just like, "Wait, what, what's going on here?" But

Jay Ray:

But listen, the crowd was in there,

Sir Daniel:

somebody like it

Jay Ray:

"Huh?"

Sir Daniel:

I will say that like everything else in life, um, people's

Sir Daniel:

appreciation of DJs and the, and people who are parties, party star-

Sir Daniel:

starters, the people that, you know, are responsible for providing the soundtrack

Sir Daniel:

of your event, um, it's subjective.

Sir Daniel:

Everybody, like Jay Ray said, everybody's going to like somebody, and they're not

Sir Daniel:

going to li- and there's gonna be other people that think they're trash, right?

Sir Daniel:

That's just, that's how it is.

Sir Daniel:

I just think that there is in the DJ community, um, as we talk about the

Sir Daniel:

spectrum between age, um, gender within the, the DJ community, I think we would

Sir Daniel:

all benefit more if we listened, and Marq McPherson, um, kind of, uh, leaned

Sir Daniel:

into this, is that if we listen to learn or understand instead of listening to

Sir Daniel:

clap back and to have a, a response and to, you know, to get back at somebody,

Sir Daniel:

I think we would actually grow more.

Sir Daniel:

Because I'm at the age where I know, you know, I don't h- I, I'm nowhere near, um,

Sir Daniel:

maybe the skill level of a Krate Digga.

Sir Daniel:

And so a Krate, somebody who's been at it for 30 years is offering me some

Sir Daniel:

technical advice or something that's gonna make me step my game up, I am all ears.

Sir Daniel:

I feel like there is a, there's a level of ego that has overtaken everybody, whether

Sir Daniel:

you're an OG or you're new in the game, whether you have 100 followers or whether

Sir Daniel:

you, whether you have 100,000 followers.

Sir Daniel:

I think a lot of us, our egos get in the way and do not allow for

Sir Daniel:

us to learn and therefore we're-- do not allow for us to grow.

Sir Daniel:

And so I just feel like we are truly missing out on, as you said

Sir Daniel:

earlier, Jay Ray, on growing community because there's… If, if, if, if,

Sir Daniel:

uh, Rob Swift hopped up in my, in my comments, oh, I would be DM-ing.

Sir Daniel:

I'd be like, "Hey, listen, I know who you are, and so if you have, if you

Sir Daniel:

have something, if I can learn something from you, I am definitely going to learn

Sir Daniel:

from it, learn from you, and take that advice." If somebody were to ask me

Sir Daniel:

something and I, at my level, whatever level that is, I'll, I would definitely

Sir Daniel:

talk to that person because I think that we need to have more community

Sir Daniel:

instead of separating each other.

Sir Daniel:

But I think m- the money and especially the fame, notoriety has really taken a

Sir Daniel:

lot of the joy out of the art of DJing.

Sir Daniel:

So that, and that's really what's missing from everything is the joy part.

Sir Daniel:

Yep

Jay Ray:

part.

Jay Ray:

Ooh, I live for that.

Jay Ray:

Um, I want to do one more thing, um, this is amazing to me.

Jay Ray:

So, and I think it goes back to what you were saying about DJing,

Jay Ray:

DJs, DJs learning at all ages,

Sir Daniel:

Mhm

Jay Ray:

Krate has been doing this for 29 years, almost 30 years, right?

Sir Daniel:

Yes

Jay Ray:

Watching him DJ and using that Rain controller and like doing all

Jay Ray:

the different like ch- da-doot-da-doos to extend the thing, and then I gotta

Sir Daniel:

Mhm.

Jay Ray:

and then I gotta like blend, and then I gotta like bring in the next song.

Jay Ray:

is a commitment to continuous learning

Sir Daniel:

Yes

Jay Ray:

z- So when people are talking about like someone who's, quote, unquote,

Jay Ray:

"old," I'm like, "No, this is someone who is consistently elevating his

Jay Ray:

craft." And what we all should be hoping to do is learn from people like that.

Jay Ray:

Like how… If I was interested in DJing, which I'm not, we know I've tried that

Jay Ray:

before, wanna know how he did that.

Jay Ray:

You know, how are you doing that?

Jay Ray:

Um, that is great, and I wanna know how to do it.

Jay Ray:

So I just wanted to, to, to echo everything.

Jay Ray:

But yeah, man, um, we have to… And that joy, man, that lands so lovely because you

Jay Ray:

could tell when a DJ… There's a story.

Jay Ray:

Uh, uh, Ron Hardy was the DJ at the Music Box in Chicago.

Jay Ray:

Legendary DJ.

Jay Ray:

Um, house music, uh, uh, legend.

Jay Ray:

And there is… I was watching a documentary once, and they was like,

Jay Ray:

"Oh, no, no, no, you could tell Ron's mood based on the songs he played."

Sir Daniel:

Mm.

Jay Ray:

"If he had a argument with his dude before he did that

Jay Ray:

set, that set was going to sound like he had an argument that day."

Sir Daniel:

Hmm

Jay Ray:

Like, that's how…

Jay Ray:

So when we talk about that connection that we strive for, I hope that DJs

Jay Ray:

have those connections with the songs that they're playing, because you

Jay Ray:

giving that energy to the audience

Sir Daniel:

Yeah

Jay Ray:

there for.

Jay Ray:

No matter what kind of DJ you, don't matter what kind of DJ you are, you

Jay Ray:

there to connect with people somehow

Sir Daniel:

Yep.

Sir Daniel:

And I think that's, um, that's it.

Sir Daniel:

That hits the nail on the head.

Sir Daniel:

It's, it's connection, and I think that young lady, um, DJing in the canyon

Sir Daniel:

has connected with a lot of people.

Sir Daniel:

They connect with her, so shout out to her.

Sir Daniel:

I get it.

Sir Daniel:

And conti- and continue because we as DJs, we are here, we are providing a service.

Jay Ray:

Mm.

Sir Daniel:

And so when we continue to operate in that mindset, then

Sir Daniel:

the, the c- the things are going to come to you that you deserve

Sir Daniel:

because you are providing a service.

Sir Daniel:

I think some people are reacting to the fact that, yes, the, the

Sir Daniel:

pool has gotten a little, you know, it's gotten a little crowded

Sir Daniel:

because because it's a cool thing to

Sir Daniel:

do, and I get that because it's like, "Uh, where, where, where

Sir Daniel:

did all these people come from?

Sir Daniel:

This used to be my playground.

Sir Daniel:

Now every- now everybody wants to come over here.

Sir Daniel:

Now everybody wanna play my funk." And, but, and they're also taking, they're also

Sir Daniel:

taking opportunities away from me, and they're taking money out of my pocket.

Sir Daniel:

So there's a lot of, again, ego and feelings are getting involved here because

Sir Daniel:

now you're messing with people's money.

Sir Daniel:

And so I think if, if there was an understanding, this getting back to what

Sir Daniel:

we've been talking about, if there was some type of empathy and understanding

Sir Daniel:

within the community about what people are going through, especially if you,

Sir Daniel:

you're a, a DJ of a certain age, then more people would be understanding

Sir Daniel:

and might possibly put more thought and effort into the actual craft that

Sir Daniel:

they're professing to be a part of.

Sir Daniel:

So that's that on that

Jay Ray:

Shout out to the Simple E. I'm like, I was like, "Ah, I love that song."

Sir Daniel:

Caught that.

Sir Daniel:

Yeah.

Sir Daniel:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Sir Daniel:

You're welcome.

Sir Daniel:

You're welcome.

Sir Daniel:

You're welcome, everybody.

Sir Daniel:

You're welcome.

Jay Ray:

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Jay Ray:

subscribe, uh, share the show with your friends, family, and colleagues.

Jay Ray:

Make sure you visit our website at queuepoints.com and check out the

Jay Ray:

conversation that we had with, uh, Krate Digga Dominic Lawson about The Krate Doc.

Jay Ray:

Make sure that check The

Jay Ray:

Krate

Jay Ray:

Doc well beautiful documentary, and really does give you some insight

Jay Ray:

on, uh, one DJ's life and kinda what it takes to, like, do this work, and

Jay Ray:

it is not for the faint of heart.

Jay Ray:

Five gigs in three days

Sir Daniel:

Woo!

Jay Ray:

That's a lot, you know what I'm saying?

Jay Ray:

But the reality is that's, you know, that's, that's the, that's, that's it.

Jay Ray:

That's what it is, right?

Jay Ray:

So go and check that out at the website.

Jay Ray:

Um, check us out on Substack, uh, as well.

Jay Ray:

You can subscribe to our newsletter there.

Jay Ray:

And, um, yeah, that's… We're rebuilding the store, so, uh, that'll be coming soon.

Jay Ray:

I'm flipping the script again, Sir Daniel, so I'm not ready to share it with you.

Jay Ray:

Uh, I'ma change it again.

Sir Daniel:

Okay.

Jay Ray:

coming again.

Jay Ray:

Uh, and, uh, but anyway, we appreciate y'all.

Jay Ray:

We love y'all.

Sir Daniel:

Thank you once again for all the birthday wishes.

Sir Daniel:

Um, please make sure you subscribe to my YouTube channel.

Sir Daniel:

Like I said, if you wanna sub- if you wanna subscribe a DJ that's

Sir Daniel:

actually playing records and, and not just turning knobs and stuff.

Sir Daniel:

And if I… That's too much equipment to be taken out in the, in the canyon.

Sir Daniel:

That's not gonna happen.

Jay Ray:

like wheeling, like wheeling the table

Sir Daniel:

Nope.

Sir Daniel:

Nope.

Sir Daniel:

Absolutely not.

Sir Daniel:

But as I say in this life, you have a choice.

Sir Daniel:

Listen to me, you have a choice.

Sir Daniel:

You can either pick up the needle or you can let the record play.

Sir Daniel:

I am DJ Sir Daniel,

Jay Ray:

My name is Jay Ray, y'all

Sir Daniel:

and this has been Queue Points podcast, dropping

Sir Daniel:

the needle on Black music history.

Sir Daniel:

We will see you on the next go-round.

Sir Daniel:

Peace.

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