DJ Sir Daniel and Jay Ray mark the 30th anniversary of Faith Evans' 1995 debut album Faith by asking whether it stands as a stronger debut than Mary J. Blige's What's the 411. The conversation traces Faith Evans' path through Bad Boy Records, her writing and vocal contributions to Blige's My Life, and producer Chucky Thompson's role in shaping both records. Sir Daniel and Jay Ray unpack the Diddy-engineered rollout that built anticipation around Faith Evans' identity, the tabloid narrative that pitted her against Mary J. Blige, and the album's standing as a defining quiet storm and R&B project of the Bad Boy era.
The Breakdown (Topics Discussed)
- Comparing debut albums: how Faith Evans' Faith and Mary J. Blige's What's the 411 set different templates for 1990s R&B
- Chucky Thompson's production fingerprint on both Faith and My Life, and Faith Evans' behind-the-scenes writing contributions to Blige's work
- Diddy's marketing playbook for introducing Faith Evans, including the obscured album art and the joint Vibe magazine feature with The Notorious B.I.G.
- "Soon As I Get Home" and the album's place in the quiet storm and slow jam canon
Chapter Markers
00:00 Disclaimer
00:19 Intro Theme
00:36 Welcome to the Show and Context
03:18 Quick Transition
03:19 The Question: Does Faith Wash What's the 411?
03:43 Breaking Down the Case for Faith
05:23 My Life Is the Magnum Opus Argument
06:04 Faith's Connection to Bad Boy & Mary's My Life
07:48 Vocal Ability vs. Star Quality
09:01 The Mary vs. Faith Rivalry & Diddy's Role
11:45 Transition
11:51 Diddy's Artist Rollout Formula
13:31 The Biggie & Faith Vibe Cover Moment
17:44 Quick Transition
17:45 Faith as a Pure R&B Album vs. What's the 411
21:01 Deep Dive: Soon As I Get Home
23:41 Transition
Verdict and Reactions
25:07 Outro Theme
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This episode was originally recorded on January 30, 2025.
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Sir Daniel:Greetings, and welcome to another episode of Queue Points podcast.
Sir Daniel:I wish I would remember to take my microphone off mute.
Sir Daniel:I am DJ Sir Daniel.
Jay Ray:And my name is Jay Ray, sometimes known by my government
Jay Ray:as Johnnie Ray Kornegay III.
Sir Daniel:So, um, this episode, Jay Ray, we are… We're
Sir Daniel:stirring the pot a little bit.
Sir Daniel:Just a little bit.
Jay Ray:Just a little.
Jay Ray:And- I think people…
Jay Ray:There's probably a lot of people that are tuning in that will
Jay Ray:probably like, "I, I see this."
Sir Daniel:They never thought about it, and once you, you have a second
Sir Daniel:to think about it, you'll be like, "Huh. You know what? You guys might
Sir Daniel:be onto something." Well, Jay Ray, on August 29th of this year, 2025,
Sir Daniel:that will mark the 30th anniversary of Faith Evans' debut album Faith.
Jay Ray:Wow, so you know what this means?
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:We are, have officially entered the Bad Boy era, the 30th
Jay Ray:anniversary of what we really constitute as like the Bad Boy era.
Jay Ray:So when we think about how Black music made this kind of drastic
Jay Ray:shift, Mark knows where we're going.
Jay Ray:Like- Mm-hmm … it is a drastic shift in the way we saw ourselves, in
Jay Ray:particular in hip hop, but also in R&B.
Sir Daniel:Yes.
Jay Ray:This marks the 30th anniversary.
Jay Ray:1995 would have been when that really started, and that's crazy to
Jay Ray:me that it's been 30 years since it
Sir Daniel:happened.
Sir Daniel:Listen, I feel blessed that we were around for it and we got to witness it firsthand.
Jay Ray:Yes.
Sir Daniel:So, okay.
Sir Daniel:So as Jay Ray and I typically do, we have these, um, these conversations
Sir Daniel:that turn into these questions that we feel like you all might be interested
Sir Daniel:in and probably never thought about it.
Sir Daniel:And before I make the statement or ask this question- Mm-hmm … I
Sir Daniel:want us to be very clear.
Sir Daniel:Both Jay Ray and I are very clear a- that What's the 411 is
Sir Daniel:a, is one, is an iconic album.
Jay Ray:Absolutely.
Jay Ray:It's
Sir Daniel:quadruple times platinum.
Sir Daniel:It's probably more than that at this point.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:Um, Mary J. Blige is a once in a lifetime artist.
Jay Ray:One of one.
Sir Daniel:She's once in a lifetime artist.
Sir Daniel:She is iconic in, um, on her own.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:And, but I guess the question that we were pondering
Sir Daniel:as debut albums are concerned- Mm-hmm … is it just possible, just
Sir Daniel:a little bit- … is it possible that Faith, Self-titled, by Faith Evans-
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: is a better debut album than What's the 411?
Jay Ray:That's all.
Jay Ray:We're just asking.
Jay Ray:Just-
Jay Ray:Just- … asking
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: just asking
Jay Ray:I have thoughts, Sir Daniel.
Jay Ray:I have thoughts on this.
Jay Ray:So I, I think that it's important for us to recognize that Faith came in
Jay Ray:the shadow of- Mm-hmm … the, the, the, the watershed moment that was
Jay Ray:Mary J. Blige's What's the 411, right?
Jay Ray:Right.
Jay Ray:Everything about R&B, for men and women, changed with that record.
Jay Ray:And I think this question is valid because the same players that
Jay Ray:created that record, many of them were in the hands of this record.
Jay Ray:You know, it's coming from the same place, right?
Jay Ray:You know what I mean?
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:So I am wondering if by the time Faith's debut happens, what we
Jay Ray:are hearing is the, um, the years' culminations of perfecting this sound.
Sir Daniel:Um, One of the th- thoughts that came across my mind in going
Sir Daniel:over this show was that one of the reasons why Faith is possibly a better
Sir Daniel:debut album than What's the 411 is because universally, it is universally
Sir Daniel:recognized that My Life by Mary J.
Sir Daniel:Blige is her magnum opus.
Jay Ray:It is.
Jay Ray:It's her masterpiece.
Sir Daniel:Is the absolute best album to this day.
Sir Daniel:People, bar none, across the board agree that My Life is in
Sir Daniel:fact Mary J. Blige's best album.
Sir Daniel:So if so fact though, it could be, you know, it could be said then that Faith is
Sir Daniel:a better debut album than What's the 411.
Jay Ray:Yeah.
Jay Ray:And, and to that point, and I… reason why I wanted you to mention that is
Jay Ray:because I think it's also important for us to land the fact that, you
Jay Ray:know, F- Faith was newly signed, so newly signed to Bad Boy, right?
Jay Ray:As My Life was being created, Diddy was off creating Bad Boy, but also still in
Jay Ray:Mary's, still in the Uptown stuff, right?
Jay Ray:Right.
Jay Ray:So Faith Evans was brought in to work on the My Life record.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:You know what I'm saying?
Jay Ray:And, and contributing vocals and, like, all of this stuff.
Jay Ray:I'm sure some writing
Sir Daniel:as
Jay Ray:well.
Sir Daniel:Definitely writing.
Jay Ray:Definitely writing.
Jay Ray:Yeah, and so I am thinking that- This particular album, what I, what I
Jay Ray:appreciate about Faith, and I'm glad we're talking about it, 'cause one of the things
Jay Ray:we were talking about, y'all, is that we don't give the Faith debut no love.
Jay Ray:We act like that record wasn't, like- … an R&B masterpiece, okay?
Jay Ray:Yes.
Jay Ray:Like, and that record perfected in many ways all of the things that kind
Jay Ray:of Mary helped to usher in, but the Faith debut album kind of perfected it.
Jay Ray:And I think we should note, it's important for us to understand,
Jay Ray:just like with Mary's My Life record where Chucky Thompson's magic- Mm-hmm
Jay Ray:made that record happen, Chucky Thompson's magic also made the Faith record happen,
Jay Ray:'cause Faith was like- All over it … "That's the dude I want to produce my
Jay Ray:record." Chucky, it was all over that.
Jay Ray:Shout out to Chucky Thompson.
Jay Ray:You know, rest in
Jay Ray:peace.
Jay Ray:He was all over that album.
Sir Daniel:And see, here's a couple things that it kind of boils down to,
Sir Daniel:and it, this resonates with a lot of artists in the music industry, people.
Sir Daniel:When we talk about when it comes down to vocal ability-
Sir Daniel:Ooh … versus star quality.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:Now, hear me out.
Sir Daniel:I'm not saying that one of these ladies has one over the other,
Sir Daniel:although, I mean, it's pr- I mean-
Sir Daniel:it's pretty obvious of, of course Mary J. Blige is globally a
Sir Daniel:bigger- Yeah … star, a bigger presence, a bigger celebrity, okay?
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Sir Daniel:Now- Faith Evans, Faith Evans ain't no, ain't no joke.
Sir Daniel:She ain't no punk either.
Sir Daniel:Mm. Right.
Sir Daniel:Faith Evans we know that she came from, she comes from a gospel background.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:So she's got the vocal chops.
Sir Daniel:Um, Al B. Sure gave her her first shot.
Sir Daniel:Yep.
Sir Daniel:Um, r- as far as the writing- Singing, that mix.
Sir Daniel:Yep … and singing background.
Sir Daniel:Yep.
Sir Daniel:All of the things.
Sir Daniel:Faith Evans literally was built for creating R&B music, cre- in the
Sir Daniel:creative aspect of making music.
Sir Daniel:Faith Evans was built for it.
Sir Daniel:And then on top of that, she has a, an amazing voice.
Jay Ray:Yeah.
Sir Daniel:Now, I think where things got sticky, of course, and we could
Sir Daniel:talk, we can talk a little history.
Sir Daniel:Oh,
Jay Ray:the ru- oh, the rumor, the rumors.
Sir Daniel:The thing is, is that when you think about the messiest
Sir Daniel:pers- the messiest person on the planet, it's usually a man.
Sir Daniel:And that man, of course, is Sean "Puffy" Combs.
Sir Daniel:Messy.
Sir Daniel:Every- it's well known that a lot of the friction or even
Sir Daniel:the comparisons between- Mm
Sir Daniel:Mary and Faith got started because, um, Faith was being molded in the image-
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: of Mary J. Blige.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:A- and so, and so he, so with that happening, of course, you know, the
Sir Daniel:tabloids like to run with the stories.
Sir Daniel:Of course, there have been, you know, h- historically there have been many, many,
Sir Daniel:many conversations about this, um, this mythological fight that happened- Yes
Sir Daniel:between Mary and Faith.
Sir Daniel:And, you know, it's been dragged on for years until the women both got to a
Sir Daniel:point where they could speak publicly.
Sir Daniel:Yes.
Sir Daniel:And they speak together and diffuse all the m- the myths
Sir Daniel:about the past that between them.
Sir Daniel:But I mean, you know, the… For all intents and purposes, Jay Ray,
Sir Daniel:the two of them are completely yoked in this, in this game.
Sir Daniel:They've been, they've been aligned for, since the inception of their careers, and
Sir Daniel:there's nothing that will take that away.
Sir Daniel:They are con- they are going to be linked together forever.
Jay Ray:Oh, absolutely.
Jay Ray:So sidebar, remember the other messiness that they finally had to quash too
Jay Ray:was, like, um, there was this rumor back in the day, it was like Faith
Jay Ray:Evans was vocal coaching Mary J.
Jay Ray:Blige.
Jay Ray:And that's why Mary sounded so good and bla.
Jay Ray:And it was like, baby, none of that happened.
Jay Ray:Y'all just, like, talking, making up stuff.
Jay Ray:Like, it wasn't a thing.
Jay Ray:I just wanted to… Baby, the rumor mills back in the day when,
Jay Ray:uh, Faith hit the scene as, like, a solo act was, like, a big deal.
Jay Ray:Um, and we're gonna talk about a thing that Diddy did To market Faith
Jay Ray:that I thought was very interesting.
Jay Ray:So we are gonna get into that in a second.
Jay Ray:But two things about them being equally, about them being yoked and like together.
Jay Ray:Um, even when you… I had forgotten about this until I was preparing for the show,
Jay Ray:and I know that I mentioned it to you.
Jay Ray:I was like, "Oh, I forgot that Mary and her sister co-wrote Falling
Jay Ray:in Love with Faith on the record."
Jay Ray:And I don't know how I forgot this because this version of Love Don't
Jay Ray:Live Here Anymore is an amazing version featuring Mary and Faith together.
Jay Ray:This thing is produced by, uh, Prince Charles Alexander and them.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:This version of that song is solid.
Jay Ray:Forgot it, forgot it happened.
Sir Daniel:Right.
Sir Daniel:And that's, that's a shame.
Sir Daniel:Mm. But, um, yeah, like you were saying, they-
Sir Daniel:I want you to talk about the, the, the Diddy, um, what- … the
Sir Daniel:Diddy formula that he was doing.
Sir Daniel:'Cause if I'm, I'm thinking it's the, um, how do you say?
Sir Daniel:The, the, the, the, the, the face being kind of obscured,
Sir Daniel:that kind of, the kind of look.
Sir Daniel:Because for a long time we didn't know what Faith looked like.
Sir Daniel:If you can remember-
Jay Ray:Yeah
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: they, all of the, all of the records that were put out, of course,
Jay Ray:were in these very generic, um, vinyl-
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: um, s- uh, vinyl sleeves.
Jay Ray:Um, if the pictures came out, when that one picture came out of the
Jay Ray:album, it was an obscure picture- Right
Jay Ray:and it was just like Faith's mouth.
Jay Ray:Yes.
Sir Daniel:And so, which is along kind of what, um, the, what's for, the 411
Sir Daniel:album cover is- Was very- … is like Mary wearing that Glamour Shots hat- Yep.
Sir Daniel:… and pulled it over her, pulled it over her eyes, and you could barely- And it
Jay Ray:was very shadowy.
Sir Daniel:Yeah, exactly.
Sir Daniel:And which is, which is a, a very, at the time, a very Diddy, formulaic- Mm-hmm
Sir Daniel:way of introducing artists to the public.
Sir Daniel:So a- am I, am I in the ballpark or, with your theory?
Jay Ray:No.
Jay Ray:No, but you're, but we're, I mean, all of this is, is, is together, right?
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:So I don't know, and I'm sure Faith has talked about this, I didn't
Jay Ray:research it before this conversation, um, because I didn't think about
Jay Ray:it as I was getting into this, but here is what I was thinking of.
Jay Ray:I was thinking about this.
Sir Daniel:Mm. Oh, oh, yes, yes.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Jay Ray:So Biggie… And so Faith is coming out.
Jay Ray:And, and so I think, um, I think, um, You Still Love Me came out in, like, June.
Jay Ray:Um-
Sir Daniel:Yes, it was a summertime joint
Sir Daniel:… Jay Ray: so it was the summertime.
Sir Daniel:This was definitely a summertime record.
Sir Daniel:And we then get to see what Faith Evans looks like, right?
Sir Daniel:So we, we hear the song, we get to see what Faith Evans looks like, and then all
Sir Daniel:of a sudden we realize, like, oh, she's m- she got married to The Notorious B.I.G.?
Sir Daniel:That's a, that's a thing.
Sir Daniel:Who was, who was sizzling-
Jay Ray:Who is red hot … cooking right now.
Jay Ray:His album is a year, like, a year old.
Jay Ray:He is the biggest thing in hip hop.
Jay Ray:He is that dude.
Jay Ray:And so this Vibe cover happens, and I had forgotten that
Jay Ray:this is how this was set up.
Jay Ray:Yeah.
Jay Ray:So this came out in October.
Jay Ray:There's actually two separate stories.
Jay Ray:So Diddy is just masterful.
Jay Ray:There's literally two separate stories.
Jay Ray:There's a Biggie story, and there's a Faith story, which actually,
Jay Ray:shout out to Emil Wilbekin.
Jay Ray:Emil Wilbekin wrote the Faith story.
Jay Ray:And but they're, uh, they're photographed together, but they're, they literally
Jay Ray:have probably a smooth 10 pages of the magazine because there's the Biggie side
Jay Ray:of it, and there's the Faith side of it.
Jay Ray:And I was just like, "That, that Diddy, that Sean 'Puffy' Combs-
Sir Daniel:He who shall not be named
Jay Ray:he who shall not be named, knew how to like roll out th- an artist.
Jay Ray:And so now you have his, his, his big artist on his label, and
Jay Ray:now his premier vocalist, and they are also a married couple.
Jay Ray:Oh, and by the way, they also have projects out.
Jay Ray:It was just like-
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Sir Daniel:You know what?
Sir Daniel:You're absolutely right.
Sir Daniel:That machine, that was a well-oiled machine at the time- Mm
Sir Daniel:because poor Craig Mack, you know, God rest his soul- … was
Sir Daniel:caught up in this, you know, you got Biggie's fiery hot right now.
Sir Daniel:And he was hot too for a second.
Sir Daniel:Then- Oh my
Jay Ray:God, yeah
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: he was on fire at first, and then Big came along
Jay Ray:and kinda took the spotlight.
Jay Ray:And then to add more pressure, you got an R&B, the next R&B queen- Mm-hmm
Jay Ray:um, come along and drops a very solid, solid R&B album that summer
Jay Ray:of 1995 because radio picked on, picked up on it so fast.
Jay Ray:Um, it was mid-tempo, so all the- Yes … DJs were w-
Jay Ray:You could do the, you, there was the head nod that you could do.
Jay Ray:The- Back in the day, everything was a head nod.
Sir Daniel:It was a head nod, and all the DJs were blending the records.
Sir Daniel:I mean, she was fi- she was on fire on the mixtape scene.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:So it was just magnificent.
Sir Daniel:It was a, like you said, it was a master class and a rollout
Sir Daniel:for this particular album.
Sir Daniel:And so y- you know, you couldn't go anywhere without seeing the Snipes
Sir Daniel:of the, the, um, this Faith album.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:Who is Faith?
Sir Daniel:Yes.
Sir Daniel:You know, they- Yes
Sir Daniel:they used to love doing that.
Sir Daniel:They, yep.
Sir Daniel:Who is Faith?
Sir Daniel:Who is this person?
Sir Daniel:And find out, you know.
Sir Daniel:And this was a lovely setup for, for Bad Boy Records.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Sir Daniel:It was an awesome time to be a Bad Boy artist.
Sir Daniel:Well, only because there was like- Little did we know … three, there was
Sir Daniel:only three people at the time- Right.
Sir Daniel:on the label, and it was all good.
Sir Daniel:And it, not for nothing, all three, these two women, not only are they linked
Sir Daniel:professionally- But they both share, they both share like a, a, a, a nice
Sir Daniel:amount of dubious- … you know, kind of shady, shady things that have, you know,
Sir Daniel:marred their careers over the years.
Sir Daniel:Lord have mercy.
Sir Daniel:And they've all worked with the same amount, same people.
Jay Ray:Exactly.
Sir Daniel:Both Faith and Mary have worked with Whitney Houston, you know,
Sir Daniel:have stood on the stage with Aretha.
Sir Daniel:All the big divas that you can think of, they've all worked with them.
Sir Daniel:Kelly Price, everybody.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Sir Daniel:And so when you're good, you're just good.
Sir Daniel:When you're a great vocalist, and you're a songwriter, and you know
Sir Daniel:what to- and you're down to earth-
Jay Ray:Yeah
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: you can do those things.
Jay Ray:Yeah.
Jay Ray:I think that when we reflect on the Faith Evans record, you said
Jay Ray:something really important, and I wanna hammer this home for us.
Jay Ray:It was a squarely R&B album.
Jay Ray:I feel like with the m- I feel like with What's the 411?,
Jay Ray:too, um, what attracted us to that record is how hip hop it sounded, right?
Jay Ray:Right.
Jay Ray:Even though it was an R&B album, it felt very hip hop, um, in terms of
Jay Ray:the samples that they used, et cetera.
Jay Ray:Whereas Faith did that too, but I think the magic of Chucky Thompson was
Jay Ray:Chucky understood- Like, how to make the melodies kind of like sweet- Yeah
Jay Ray:in a way.
Jay Ray:So you might have, like, a hard underscore or a hard sample under it,
Jay Ray:but Checky- Chucky understood how to put, um, these beautiful keys on top of
Jay Ray:things to make it just like a c- what R&B sounded like and what R&B needed.
Jay Ray:So I feel like as we're talking about this album, um, that's the thing
Jay Ray:to remember, is it was like- Yeah
Jay Ray:it's a classic R&… It's now a classic R&B record.
Sir Daniel:So what I also remember about this is that Faith was a album
Sir Daniel:that even our parents could get into.
Jay Ray:Ab, they could rock with Faith Evans.
Sir Daniel:Whereas What's the 411 had that parental advisory sticker on it.
Jay Ray:Yep.
Sir Daniel:Yep.
Sir Daniel:Mary had a couple rappers on there dropping- Yes
Sir Daniel:you know-
Jay Ray:Grand Puba … verses … Mary was rapping on the, the,
Sir Daniel:the record.
Sir Daniel:Mary was rapping on there.
Sir Daniel:So, you know, she, she, Mary faced a lot of criticism.
Jay Ray:She did.
Jay Ray:But- Remember with the, the look and everything.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Sir Daniel:It was like, okay, you know, what is she, is she going to, is she a hip hop artist?
Sir Daniel:Is she R&B?
Sir Daniel:You know, she took a chance, and that chance paid off.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:Um, but and, and in her defense also, um, What's the 411 has three years on Faith.
Sir Daniel:Absolutely.
Sir Daniel:So Faith as an artist, um, constructing her debut album to be strictly R&B, in
Sir Daniel:her defense was like, "Nah, you know, Mary got the hip hop thing covered.
Sir Daniel:Yes, I've got, my beats have s- there's some beats in this, some swing to
Sir Daniel:the records that are on here, but I'm going to bring you all a fully formed,
Sir Daniel:a R&B album with a 1995 sensibility."
Jay Ray:Mm. 30 years, y'all.
Sir Daniel:30 years ago.
Sir Daniel:Do you understand?
Sir Daniel:That's a lot of- That's a lot of pump it up hair jam and spray- … and prom
Sir Daniel:hairdos that, you know, that was going on.
Sir Daniel:We went through, you know, straight back cornrows
Sir Daniel:and- Yeah … high top fades and everything to these records.
Sir Daniel:So that's why they mean something to us.
Jay Ray:Faith has, we just, we already mentioned one earlier,
Jay Ray:has a classic remake in Love Don't Live Here Anymore featuring Mary.
Jay Ray:W- but there's another slow ja- Sir Daniel, that is so deep
Jay Ray:in, like, the slow jam cannon.
Jay Ray:It's in the hymn books.
Jay Ray:It's in the hymn- It's in the hymn books … this is how you make a slow jam.
Jay Ray:There is a song on that record, um, as well
Sir Daniel:Are we-
Jay Ray:Yeah, you, we can talk about Soon As I Get Home
Sir Daniel:Listen, Soon As I Get Home is… You know how
Sir Daniel:important Soon As I Get Home is?
Sir Daniel:Soon As I Get Home is so important that they can make a parody song
Sir Daniel:of it for, on a, as a gospel song.
Jay Ray:Yes.
Sir Daniel:Um, just it's in that canon, it's a quiet storm fixture.
Sir Daniel:It gave language to women, especially Black women, um, about who are dealing,
Sir Daniel:you know, they're dealing with this newfound sense of independence.
Sir Daniel:It's the '90s.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:You know, they feel… They're being seen, they feel seen.
Sir Daniel:Um, people are taking them seriously.
Sir Daniel:They're making a lot more money in most cases- Yes … than Black men.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:And so black women are sh- struggling with this balance of, of being breadwinners-
Jay Ray:Yes
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: in their own lives, but also being soft enough to
Jay Ray:maintain relationships or to attract relationships to them.
Jay Ray:And so whereas, you know, where Mary is, is giving us, you know, her tomboy fits,
Jay Ray:and she's bopping, and she's- Mm-hmm
Jay Ray:but she's still singing a sweet melody, you have the ladies also now have Faith-
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm
Jay Ray:… Sir Daniel: who is, who is completely softened, who is, you know, got the,
Jay Ray:the, the hair, the, the look, the whole look that's going on that would
Jay Ray:be attractive to both men and women.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:Women want to imitate it, men want to be with a woman like that.
Jay Ray:She's light-skinned.
Jay Ray:All the things that work for her.
Jay Ray:All
Jay Ray:the things, especially in the '90s.
Sir Daniel:In the '90s.
Sir Daniel:All the things that could work for you as a female or female artist in the '90s.
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:And so her gently singing this, this, this yearning- Mm … ballad o- you know, over
Sir Daniel:a very simplistic, it's very simplistic.
Jay Ray:Yes.
Sir Daniel:There's not a whole lot going on in this song.
Sir Daniel:It's just her, the melody, and some strings and keyboard, and that's it.
Jay Ray:That's it.
Sir Daniel:And you've been sucked into this, to this melody
Sir Daniel:of Faith saying, "Listen."
Jay Ray:Just so you know-
Sir Daniel:It's on … just so you know.
Sir Daniel:It's on.
Sir Daniel:It's on in the song.
Jay Ray:Jam.
Jay Ray:So listen, I think, where I think we've landed though, Sir Daniel, which is really
Jay Ray:interesting- Mm-hmm … throughout this conversation, because I've been watching
Jay Ray:the chat, um, is- There's definitely love for What's the 411 that's like, you
Jay Ray:know, no, What's the 411, but there's a whole lot of love for people like…
Jay Ray:But Faith, though-
Sir Daniel:Yes
Sir Daniel:… Jay Ray: Faith perfected that thing.
Sir Daniel:you know, we just wanted to pose the question to y'all.
Sir Daniel:We ain't trying to start… I know y'all already think that we, that we, we have
Sir Daniel:some type of vendetta against Mary.
Sir Daniel:We do not.
Sir Daniel:We
Jay Ray:love Mary.
Sir Daniel:We do not.
Sir Daniel:We love Mary, but these are the types of conversations that we have here
Sir Daniel:on, um, on Queue Points podcast, because that's what we can do.
Sir Daniel:We have these intelligent conversations about things that
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Jay Ray:and get yourself some fresh gear.
Sir Daniel:2025.
Sir Daniel:Perfection.
Sir Daniel:Listen, like I always say, in this life, you have a choice.
Sir Daniel:You can either pick up the needle, or you can let the record play.
Sir Daniel:I'm DJ Sir Daniel.
Jay Ray:My name is Jay Ray, y'all.
Sir Daniel:And this has been Queue Points podcast, dropping
Sir Daniel:the needle on Black music history.
Sir Daniel:We will see you on the next go round.
Sir Daniel:Peace.
